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Tell us about your favorite scene …
Many
years ago, I was running my PEP group in Philadelphia and among the
regulars was a young couple. The female took me aside and told me her
boyfriend’s hot, submissive fantasy was to be kidnapped. She asked me if
I would join her and her male friend in kidnapping her partner. I
happily agreed and asked what plans they had made. The male friend had a
van and the availability of an empty barn on a relative’s farm. We
agreed to stall our victim from leaving the group until everyone else
had departed. While I distracted our prey, the friend handcuffed him
and, simultaneously, his girlfriend blindfolded him. We loaded him in
the van without speaking so that he wouldn’t be able to identify his
captors. We drove in eerie silence to the farm, unloaded him, and then
undressed him and strung his naked body up in bondage that we’d arranged
several days earlier. The girlfriend and I dominated him for hours. He
was both excited and scared the entire time. When we finally took him
down and removed the blindfold, he said, “You fulfilled my most intense
fantasy.” I was only able to enjoy this kidnapping scene once, and I’d love to do it again—any offers or suggestions?
What is your biggest turn-on? My biggest turn-on is always the same. I am seated wearing hot fetish clothes: black leather, heels, a corset. At my feet is a naked, collared man on his knees with his eyes downcast, awaiting my next command.
Do you do in-person sessions? What is your favorite type of session? I have no script for my in-person sessions. I go with the flow and energy between us, but there is one thing I always do at the start of a session. After the submissive is naked, wearing my collar, I order him to stand with his hands clasped behind his back and his legs spread. I then examine my new property. I look at his facial features including his open mouth; I note the hair pattern growth on his body; his nipples, his back, and his ass cheeks. I order him to bend over and spread his ass cheeks. If I’m in the mood, I might shine a flashlight up his asshole. Last but not least I sit down, beckon him to me with a crooked finger, and spend a long time examining his cock and balls. At the end of this examination he is painfully erect and deeply within subspace. I feel my power grow throughout this activity, and, as I’m a sexual power junkie, I love to commence every session this way.
What kind of calls do you enjoy? I like my submissives and slaves to communicate with me. As a result, I’m not fond of gags. Needless to say, though, my boys can only respond to questions I pose. The more articulate and complex a caller and his fantasies are, the more I enjoy the call.
I am a classic, elegant, and dominant woman. I am not “the jerk-off queen of the western hemisphere.” So no surprise: I like subs that don’t hold ejaculation as the ultimate goal. They should always be grateful, polite, and obedient. If they are honest enough to tell me that they have no BDSM experience, that’s fine—and they should not expect me to tell them what BDSM is all about in a few minutes. S&M/Fetish is a complex and sophisticated form of sex; we need hours to investigate its intricacies.
A longtime friend of Nancy Ava Miller, Mistress Sheila led PEP-Philadelphia S&M/Fetish Support Group for nearly a decade. She divides her time between two homes in two nudist resorts, one in Florida and the other in Pennsylvania. She holds a Master’s degree in Education and is a certified addiction counselor. She has had live-in slaves and intimately understands 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. Submissive men are welcome to call to explore with Mistress Sheila, and dominant men are invited to call to share ideas and experiences.
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